Asian men in Canada often fret that the laws of supply and demand are working against them when it comes to hooking up with the right woman. Are men with Asian ethnic origins justified in feeling anxious these racial preferences are actually operating in North American dating? Ronald Leefounder of a relationship service for Asian men in Metro Vancouver, believes Chinese, Japanese, Korean and other men with East Asian roots who make these complaints are looking for excuses to avoid facing their social awkwardness.
Asian fetish refers to a pronounced interest in Asian people, Asian cultures, or things of Asian origin by those of non-Asian descent. Asian fetish is a slang expression derived from sexual fetishismwhich in medical terms is a psychosexual fixation on a nonliving object or nongenital body part. The term Asian fetish applies to the enthusiasms experienced by some non-Asian people for such things as Asian cinema tattoos made up of Chinese characters  or the adoption of Asian children, especially to the exclusion or diminishment of other cultures.
You hate Asian men, they insist; you hate your own child. You hate yourself. I save these messages in a folder on my computer to document the abuse.
Trolling is nothing new. As a light in the darkness, one YouTube personality is striking back and educating people in the process. Natalie Tran has almost two million subscribers on her YouTube channeland she noticed over the years that there have been a number of disturbing comments revolving around the same thing: her being an Asian woman in a relationship with a white man.
It was somewhat of a non sequitur from the conversation. He proceeded to give me a knowing look before launching into a monologue about his ever-enlightening travel experiences and exes overseas. He grins at me.
Kat Chow. Elise Hu. A recent study on data from a dating app found all women except black women were most drawn to white men, and men of all races with one notable exception prefer Asian women.
He hates it when I do this. So do I, really. We live in San Francisco, so this dip is as common as the hills.
Earlier this year, I went on a date with a man who told me he had a thing for Asian women. We were sitting across from each other at a table in a fancy restaurant and he stood up to do a head-to-toe scan of me. I am sick of being fetishised because of racist stereotypes about "small and compliant" Asian women.